免责声明：我不是训练有素的生理学家，许可的治疗师，经验丰富的婚姻顾问，也不明智地以关系的方式聪明......我勉强无拘无束！所以，发布关于婚姻问题的例证对我来说有点不舒服，特别是因为我这里的角度来看，从机器人的角度来看。我是一个内向的，保留和笨拙的安静。我不允许很多人靠近我或表现出很大的情感，所以当我把自己的情绪锁定时，他们真的被锁定了深处！这是一件好事吗？取决于你的观点。
第一个响应者互动，看到并体验最糟糕的人性，并这样做，仍然在火圈外面生活在火，EMS圈外，警察有时是一个挑战。在我的情况下，我的妻子想听听我的一天和发生的呼叫;但是，她不想知道任何细节 - 没有！So, I’m guilty of shutting off all emotions because I’ve walked in the door angry at yet another overdose where the victim’s child is calling their estranged father from the living room telling him how “mom has done it again” …or upset that my crew just worked exhaustively hard to save a life from an MVA, only to fail. This list can go on. However, my wife hasn’t earned the bad emotions that I’m still dealing with, so I’m not going to share them with her – so, it gets bottled up and I become robotic until I can function as a human being and her husband again (that’s my perspective). Unfortunately over time that on-off switch becomes harder to find, or you simply don’t want to turn your emotions back on again in fear of reliving the cause of the ill-feelings to begin with.
这个例证旨在获得谈话 - 为您的船员为您的家人而开始谈话......为我和我的妻子。我没有任何答案，当我的妻子对我所需要的时候，我当然没有弄清楚如何关掉我的情绪分离开关在现在。我认为最重要的是that I recognize that she needs me to be emotionally engaged in our marriage, and that I must find ways to separate home-life and fire-life. And after 25 years of marriage, she’s more than earned the right to demand this, though she doesn’t.
Like all-things relationship, this will be difficult, but worth fighting for. I’m trying – I will fail more than once – but I’m trying.
保持击中，并保持争夺什么是重要的。
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